This book will play a major role in facilitating that understanding.
I have read it twice so far, and continually refer back to it."This book provides an incredibly valuable service to those struggling in a marriage with ADHD.Written by someone who has been there and knows firsthand how ADHD can disrupt a marriage, it will help couples truly understand ADHD, realize they are not alone, and teach them what specifically can be done to align together as a team to turn things around. Orlov has done a wonderful job of providing knowledge, awareness, and hope to those who sorely need it.""The ADHD Effect is an exceptional book that addresses the complexity of the relationship between partners whose lives are affected by ADHD while presenting sound family system principles in an easy-to-understand and accessible way...I would highly recommend this book to my clients, their partners, and to couple therapists who want to learn to effectively guide couples in marriages challenged by The ADHD Effect."WOW!SO much in this book I'd never thought of, and I'm even a health professional!
Great book that's tremendously helpful in understanding what happens in a marriage when one or both have ADHD.